Friday, September 30, 2011

Wiggin' It!

I finally wore the La Jay wig.

I worked with it a bit this morning. Meh. I think I just need to get used to looking at myself with big hair. I left the front and part of the side of my hair out. I pinned back the side of the wig because it was just ... too much. So far, the reactions I've gotten from close friends (who have the heart to tell me if I looked jacked up, lol) have been overwhelmingly positive.



I didn't know how I would handle wearing the wig. What if someone thought it looked nice? Do I tell them I have on a wig? Or do I just keep it moving? Overthinking it, no? Got a few compliments, "love your big hair," to someone else who thought my hair just grew a lot, lol. I fessed up, but if it happens again, I think I'm going to just say thank you and that's it.

It's my hair- - bought and paid for!

The La Jay is still growing on me. I  just have to get used to looking a different way, I guess.

Oh, and I realized I don't have any pics of me wearing my hair on this blog. Here are a few for comparison.


Flat twist on shrunken flat ironed hair



My wash and go curls in an updo

Thursday, September 29, 2011

Big Hurr E'ry Day

I finally got the La Jay wig by Vanessa!

Now that I got it, umm... I don't know if I'm feeling it. I heard -- and saw-- on YouTube that it was big. But I don't think I was prepared for how big it was until I got it yesterday. I'm on some 80s Diana Ross and Chaka Khan ish, lol!

It's similar to my natural texture, but it's longer and fuller -- which is the look I'm going for. But the thing is so. damn. BIG!

Takes a bit of getting used to. I wore it right out of the beauty supply shop to the Goodwill next door (came home empty handed, unfortunately). Maybe it was my imagination, but I felt like everybody was staring at me.

Then, when I got home, my hubby and kids clowned me. My son said, "Mom, it looks like you  have fake hair, but I know it's not."

My daughters were not fans, and my hubby teased me about it all night. Didn't know it could be this hard to wear a wig! Despite what they say, I think I'm going to stick it out a little bit more. I wouldn't mind cutting it to shoulder length.

Hopefully, I'll grow to like it a bit more once I style it a bit more.

I didn't wear it today because I'm wearing a curly fro (plus, I figure it'll be easier to transition to the La
Jay after a day of wearing my own "big" hair, instead of my usual wash and go) and I needed a bit more time to work with it.

This morning, I went straight to YouTube to see how people style it. Seems like it looks the best when the front is left out, but it's a half wig that can also be worn as a full wig. I like the way this blogger styled it.



Here are a few pics. Let me know what you think.

Yay or nay?



Stylin and profilin the La Jay wig at Goodwill




Not so sure if I'm feelin' La Jay!


I Got Wig Checked!

Recently, I've thought about buying a natural wig and strongly considered the La Jay by Vanessa and Creta Girl by Freetress. So, I went to Atlanta Beauty Depot in Smyrna and tried a few on Wednesday. They were sold out of Creta, and I tried on their other natural wigs, but no luck.

La Jay by Vanessa
I wanted big hair, half wig, but natural looking curls and only color highlights.

The attendant was nice enough to let me try on several wigs (I absolutely hate and refuse to  patronize some beauty supply stores that limit customers to try on three wigs or so at a time). That's like going to Marshall's or TJ Maxx and only allowed to try on three items!

One wig was a honey blond -- hated it. OK for highlights, but it just had too much going on. Another wig looked too fake and wiggy looking.

While she was helping me try one on, she said:

Her: "You're wearing a wig now, right?"
Me:  "No, this is my hair."
The wig I tried on matched my curl pattern somewhat.
Her: "Why do you want to wear a wig?"
Me: "I want to protect my hair, and I want my curls to hang shoulder length. My  hair only hangs that way when it's flat ironed. Otherwise, my curls shrink up."

I wasn't offended, because she just asked a question. But I couldn't help thinking: I've been weave checked before, but hardly ever wig checked! LOL.

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Mossimo at Target?

Target's offering of clothing and home decor from luxury Italian designer Mossimo a few weeks ago was a stunning success for the retailer, but an absolute disaster for those looking to snag the goods at Tar-jay's bargain prices: Stores sold out in minutes, Target.com crashed, and Mossimo for Target goods were quickly uploaded to eBay by eager entrepreneurs for triple the cost.

Last week, I heard that those lucky enough to score Mossimo online were in for major disappointment, because Target was unable to fill many orders. So would you know that I was SHOCKED and STUNNED to find a Mossimo Haul at my Target store in Cumming, GA, over the weekend.

YES, HairNistas! Now, these were all mainly online returns, but a few Mossimo items for babies -- mainly sweaters and little pants -- were still featured.

But can I tell you HairNistas that I was SOOOO excited?

I snagged this Mossimo blouse for $10, marked down from $30. Think I'm gonna pair it with a cute pair of high-waisted jeans (haven't bought them yet) and I'll make sure I post a few pics with the outfit on. This pic really doesn't do this shirt justice. I almost passed on it, because I wasn't in love with the wild print and it was a bit big. I think this shirt has to grow on me, and I know I'll have to pair it with the right accessories.


Mossimo shirt from Target

Found a Mossimo sweater, but passed. Not a big fan of army green, and I really didn't care for the cut or fit. I found a Target basketfull of Mossiomo home decor goods -- neck pillows, a large bag, iPad cases and even bedding.


Mossimo sweater and Lingerie at Target





Neck pillow, bedding and iPad bags from Mossimo

Were you lucky enough to get Mossimo? Have you seen any at your local Target stores?

Look at What I Bought During My Latest Thrift Store Haul!

If you read my thrift store post last week, you know that I absolutely love and adore thrifting.

So, HairNistas, I wanted to give you a sneak peak into some recent finds that I grabbed while thrifting over the weekend. These days, I try to mainly scope out vintage finds and, of course, name brands. I refuse to pay for vintage goods when I know the very same "vintage inspired" goods are available for a fraction of the cost at a resale store.

Leather pants: I found a fab pair of black leather pants, circa 1980s/90s. These a a little roomy and  size up for me, but they're in GREAT condition. At $4.95, I just couldn't resist this vintage find. I'd love to have these trimmed down a bit (pencil pants, no?) and maybe taken it a bit at the waist.

Vintage Leather pants from Goodwill in Norcross, GA
Blouse: The color is what first attracted  me to this blouse. I love, love, love bright colors; they pop against my chocolate skin tone, especially this bright, brilliant, almost neon purple. The cut of this blouse also drew me in. High collar blouses with bows are all the rage this season and, while this isn't quite that look, it's close enough with the high collar and ruffle down the sides. And I plan to pair it with this bright blue belt. Still haven't found the high-collared blouse with the bow, but I know it's out there and this will suffice -- for now!

Vintage blouse from Goodwill
Shoes:  After one too many trips of returning home empty-handed after shopping at the Goodwill closest to my home, I had virtually given up on finding anything at that particular store. That is, until I stumbled upon these FAB shoes from FRYE! Note: They have the chunky, wooden heel that is so on point for shoes this season. These will go down in the vintage haul find of the decade, because The Frye Company heels retail for more than $200 and I only paid $5 bucks!

Shoes from The Frye Company from Goodwill in Cumming, GA
Still on the hunt for a pair of pony leopard heels (spotted a decent Guess pair of peep-toes, but they were two sizes too big), teal, fuschia, blue and mustard yellow cardis and shirts to color block, and blouses with bows.

In a future post, I plan to show you how I'm wearing my thrift finds -- complete with accessories.

What have you found at the thrift store lately?

Sunday, September 25, 2011

How Will You Wear Your Hair This Fall?

The temps have nosedived, the leaves are falling and the chill is in the air.

This week marked the first week of fall. And, with all the changes in the weather comes another big change -- the change in how many of us wear our hair. For naturals, it means a 180-degree turn. It's less humidity -- say yes to "out" styles and blowdry/flat iron for some naturals) -- and a return of heavy moisturizers and also humectants.

But, how will you change your regimen, if at all?

After a record-scorcher summer of mostly 90-degree temps, I'm sooooo ready for a sleek blowout and flat iron. I just want to wear my hair straight for a few weeks. No doubt, I'll miss my curls, but it'll be nice to wear my hair swangin' without it looking like Chaka Khan by the end of the day because it swelled up with humidity.

I probably won't change my moisturizers much. I already use gels and glycerine, but I am looking at incorporating Hawaiin Silky glycerine moisturizer back into my routine and perhaps using up my cupucau butter stash.

I'm also seriously thinking about wigging it for protective styling. I'm a bit tired of my wash and goes, and I've been shedding a lot (at least I think so) lately. I just think I need to give my hair a break for a while.

My La Jay by Vanessa will be my go-to style during the week and I'll take another stab at dry twist outs after two good twist outs this week.

What about you? How will you wear your hair this fall?

Thursday, September 22, 2011

Six Tips for Thrift Store Shopping

From Goodwill to Value Village, there's a thrift store in just about every community. Now, I know that people are "rediscovering" thrift stores because of the economy, but for many thrifting die-hards, the thrill of shopping there has never left.

In honor of National Thrift Store Day earlier this week, I'd like to pay homage to thrift stores.


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Let me explain. I've been a die-hard thrifter for a while. I was raised in them, by my grandmother who always seemed able to make a dollar out of two cents. Not that she couldn't afford to shop elsewhere; she definitely could --- and did.

But, in her mind, why pay more for things when you didn't have to? That's where I got my love for thrifting, though I really didn't appreciate it at the time. Like most kids, I just wanted new, brand-name, in style stuff -- not the goods available at my local thrift store.

Still, I accompanied my grandmother on her thrift store hauls, particularly the Salvation Army that was less than a mile from our house in Highland Park, near Detroit, and the Value Village store a few miles away.

Eventually, her thrifty ways caught on. Every weekend, I looked forward to church rummage sales where, in dank, dark, musty church basements, I pored over vintage jewelry, old army jackets and other cool stuff when I was in high school.

I still thrifted while in college, often picking up tailored, name brand clothing I couldn't afford to wear to my newspaper internships. Then, my kids were born and I thrifted yet again, especially for barely-worn chic, fashionable baby clothes like Osh Kosh and Easter dresses for my daughters.

Expect for a brief period 5 years ago when I was building my business and I could barely afford to shop at a thrift store (I was filled with resentment that I could barely afford Value Village finds, but that's another story, LOL!), I've always shopped thrift.

Fastforward a few year and I've fallen in love with thrifting all over again. Vintage fashions are all the rage and, for the most part, that's at thrift stores. In fact, I often won't buy brand new, vintage-inspired clothing because I know that I can find it in a thrift store.

Germophobes be warned: You're sorting through things other people actually wore -- sweat stains and all -- and there's a certain smell that seems to be at EVERY thrift store, no matter where you go.

If you're new to thrifting, here are a few tips.

All thrift stores are not created alike. Really, it depends on personal preference, though I've managed to find good deals at just about every thrift store I've gone to. Thrift stores are consignment are not the same. That's not to say you can't find good deals at consignment stores, but usually consignment means higher prices.

I prefer to shop thrift, because it's the thrill of the hunt. You literally don't know what you find, and that's what makes it so fun. I spotted a pair of $125 Christian Louboutins the other day at Goodwill. Too big for me, but a steal nonetheless for that lucky person with a size 9 or 10-size foot.

  • Spend a little time getting to know your store. Often, expensive name brands can be had at stores in upscale communities, but this isn't always the case. Those Louboutins? Those were at a Goodwill in a largely blue collar ethnic community. So, don't judge a store by the neighborhood it's in. I snared my wedding dress and veil for just $75 at a St. Vincent De Paul store in a largely impoverished area of Detroit nearly16 years ago.
  • Go often. Seriously, the stuff has a fast churn. New items are brought in on the regular -- like many times throughout the day -- and there's nothing like the thrill of getting to a fresh rack of clothing before it is distributed on the floor. Racks are often left empty during the beginning of the week,  so mid and end-of-week shopping is best.
  • Take your time and go through each piece of clothing. Thrifting isn't like hitting up the rack at Macy's or TJ Maxx; you literally never know what gems you'll find. So, don't thrift if you're rushed for time; you'll miss something. Most thrift stores separate clothing by color and hang clothing on huge racks. Take your time to go through each and every piece of clothing on the rack; even check the floor for stragglers or clothing that fell on the floor. Be patient! I've missed good finds when I've been in a hurry.
  • Name brands, baby! I'm all about the brand names when I thrift. Why? Buying name brand fashions for pennies on the dollar. Sure, you can find clothing from Wal-Mart at thrift stores,  but why bother? Many times, you can find brand new items with the tags still on them from top brands such as H&M, Ralph Lauren, Armani Exchange and others.
  • Check clothing carefully. Most thrift stores don't allow returns, so buy carefully. Inspect the clothing for missing buttons, torn seams and broken zippers. As long as you're willing to sew it or have it altered, these things don't make it an automatic no-no, but it's best to go in knowing what you'll have to fix. I never buy white cotton or black cotton because it's usually faded or dingy with wear by the time it hits the store. And, I'm a sucker for well-tailored clothing, especially if you vintage shop. A well-tailored piece (vintage) is better than a cheaply made, modern piece of clothing.
  • Try it on. I never leave thrift stores without trying on clothing. I'll warn you: The fitting rooms aren't luxurious like Macy's (they're usually very dusty, dingy and with poor lighting) but I always try merchandise on. This is pre-worn stuff in many cases, so you want to check to see if clothing fits, if it is stretched out or otherwise unflattering. I always, always, always try on shoes, because it's important to me to get shoes that aren't run over or too worn. Shoes are one of the things I like least about thrifting because once someone has worn a shoe a lot, it can be hard to make it comfortable fit. Look for barely-worn or brand new shoes, instead.